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anonymous
writes:I am a 40-something female. It's been my experience that when another female is attracted to me (and we both do NOT know the other is gay), there is a connection through the eyes. For instance, our eyes lock when we talk. We stare into each others eyes, and they eyes lock with strong attraction and hotness!This is the only way I've been able to tell if another female is possibly attracted to me without knowing if they are gay or not. I started to wonder if someone could be attracted to me without the eye "lock" being present.My question is: has anyone ever found out that another person of the same sex was attracted to them, but had initially read it all the wrong way---in other words, their "gaydar" was way off. For instance, since they didn't lock eyes, one person assumed the other person wasn't attracted to them. But it turned out they were!Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2011): Hi there,
I feel the same way, I am a 21 year old female who has been very very..very curious lately. The only way I assume someone is attracted to me is if our eyes lock or I catch them staring at me then they look away. I belive its attraction, the perfect example would be the other night when I went out with my current boyfriend to a diner, and we were placed to sit in near the waiters area. There was this one waitress who everytime I look up shes staring at me. The only assumption I have of her being a lesbian is her lip pirecings;shes a hot one too. I was there talking to my sonny--(nickname), and I looked up once again and our eyes met. Man was there a lot of fire..lol my body got really hot and she was there biting her lips(smh)..our eyes lock for a moment until the point where I was so freaking angry because I knew I couldn't and would'nt do anything about it..now shes one of many who I still think about after an episode of the "eye lock"
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