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anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend really love each other.. we have done oral sex.. but when we wanted to pass have intercourse it didn't go well because his penis didn't go inside my vagina! i mean only a bit and that was very painful.. though my hymen is already broken.. moreover when he fingered me.. his finger didn't go that deep and when he tried to go deeper I stopped him bcause it was very painful, may i know the reason behind this? What is the solution?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): ofcourse you find the finger painful because the finger is boney and has a nail at its tip but the penis although is much bigger but it has a soft and velvety tip so as not to injure the vagina. try alot of forplay till you are properly wet down there prior to insertion and after afew times the vagina will expand and the pain will disappear making the act extreamly pleasurable for you. one final word though. don't forget to use condom at all times if you want to avoid pregnancy.there is nothing like fear of unwanted pregnency as a joy killer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): I have the same problem. I agree with the vaginismus comment, its very possible its that. Im sorry, I know how difficult it is. But you can get rid of it by going to a doctor. good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut we can't go to doctor as we are college students
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 This is a pretty common.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginismus
You need the help of a doctor. He will most likely prescribe muscle relaxants.
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