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writes:Please help.. my boyfriend and I of 9 months broke up 3days ago.. I was miserable.. I miss him so much. I asked him if I could have my stuf back that i had left in his house but his answer was "I dotn want to got hrough that yet.. theres nothing in there that you will need soon". So I just said goodbye and he said the same.. Its been 3 days since we broke up and he hasnt called me yet to let me know when can he give my stuff back? why is that? I dnt want to call him just for that. I would think that since we broke up that he would be willing to give it back to him as a closure. (thats what I told him.. I want it back to put a closure on our relationship) should I call him? the truth is I dont want my stuff back. I was hoping he would come back.. but for now it puzzles me that he is not calling back to let me know that he is returning my stuff. thanks
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (22 January 2011):
 hi
i don't know why you have split but but; don't play games like this! if you are missing him, just call him and tell him that. by telling him you want closure and you want your stuff back you are making it look to him like you definitely want the relationship to finish.
in think your boyfriend doesn't want to give you the stuff back because he either really doesn't want to break up or he wants more time to think. don't ring him again to ask him for the stuff back, you will be pushing the split to become a permanent one and that isn't what you want is it?
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