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writes:I have been married to my husband for 7years, it was love at first sight for both us.- the dilemma we face is we are poison together. We both use drugs I've been doing them from the loliness that I've been feeling. By numbing them, how and when are we gonna come out of this rut?
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reader, chocoholicforever +, writes (18 January 2012):
I think you should focus on getting yourself to a better place by getting treatment for you addiction. Get into therapy and work on it. Don't wait for your husband to decide whether he wants to do this too or not. Do this for yourself, regardless of what your husband is or isn't doing. Maybe he will follow your lead, or maybe he won't and he will stay stuck in this rut. Maybe he will eventually want to heal himself but it may not happen on your time frame but on his own. In the end, everyone is on their own personal journey in life even if you're married to someone else. Once you are healthier, you can set a strong example for him and deal with what he is choosing to do or not do with his life.
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (17 January 2012):
If you really want to stop, it all comes down to holding him and yourself accountable. If you're feeling really adament about stopping, actively seek clinical treatment that can help you get clean together. This likely isn't something you can do on your own, so I'd really suggest getting help from some form of therapy/treatment plan to keep you on track.
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