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Was he playing with me, or does he think that we should take our time?

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Question - (10 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *naldia writes:

i'm actually thinking about starting a relationship with someone. but i don't know if he really cares or not. when i was talking to him as a friend for a while he really didn't show any interest. my phone was turned off for five days. when he found out it was on, he texted me telling me that he missed me. then he told me that he wanted to move on to something more positive. he told me that he had nothing but love and respect for me.

he then asked me out on a date. he told me that i taught him not to be selfish. and that i should be happy. then he called me and told me to come outside. when i came outside he hugged me a whole lot of times! it felt good! he had only stopped by to hug me. then we started talking on the phone. i felt like i was falling in love with him. he mentioned to me that he liked my hugs. he than asked me to go out with him on saturday. but my phone got turned off on friday. but he still didn't come to my house and come get me.

was he playing with me. or does he think that we should take our time? i really wasn't desperate to go on a date with him and i think we should wait a while longer. what do you think? need your answers. thanks

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008):

Dexer here I may have some problem of my own but I think I can. You can take awild gusses why he likes hugging you and you mostlikly get it right. I think he wants to get it on with you but binding his time. Be on the look out ok.

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A male reader, ez4u2say United States +, writes (10 November 2008):

He was testing the waters to see how much control he has. You must tell him that you were not sure about it and by not showing up that he confirmed it for you. Tell him you went out with friends instead and had a great time and met a nice guy. Trust me it will peak his interest. Life is full of white lies, sometimes they are necessary!! Never back down never give in and let him know you deceived him. Let him think friendship is good enough and he will desire you more thinking you can live without a relationship with him. Be strong, dominate never deviate.

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