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writes:Today i logged into hotmail on my boyfriends ipad and another person was logged on. The profile was just started. I think November 1st. I had no time to look cuz he was asking what i was looking at. I said nothing but he knew it was something. he said let me take a look acting all curious. as soon as i go to look what he's doing he logs out saying he didnt mean to. the email had a girl lifting her shirt to show her stomach. his favorite body part is stomachs. neither of the emails was his. One of the emails ended in uk which i know is fake email addresses. I was furious. he was scared. he said he has no idea what or why that popped up...i think both emails were girl email addresses. One of them Jill. Was he posing as someone else?!? u have more questions just ask. Reply to this Question
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (3 November 2011):
It does seem like your guy has been posing as another person (or possibly people) online in order to receive images. It is possible he is posing as a female.
Email addresses CAN end in uk. Uk means United Kingdom and a person with a .uk email address claimed they live in the UK when they created the email account.
You may want to try and have a calm discussion with him about what you saw and ask him to disclose to you why he had those accounts, whether he has more, why he felt the need to create them, and hide them from you. If he cannot be honest with you, you may want to reevaluate your relationship as a good relationship cannot exist without honesty and trust.
I am sorry you about what you are going through.
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reader, kendra30752richardz +, writes (3 November 2011):
 Aw! I'm so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine how upset you've been. To be honest, I'd have a very hard time believing it was some freak accident. It sounds like it was him, but like they say, you always catch them sooner or later. Keep your eyes peeled. If you notice other things like this again then chances are he's not being faithful and in that case, I'd cut ties immediately. I hope you get through it just fine though. Another thing you could do is get those email addresses and send them emails pretending you're him. Find out if they've been chatting. When in this kind of situation, a girl's gotta do what she has to to protect herself. I would be very careful though, with handing my heart to someone who has such potential to be unfaithful and IMO online chats where photos or dirty talk is going on is considered unfaithful. My partner and I are strictly against these types of things. They are not harmless like most people seem to think. I hope you get through this quickly and as painlessly as possible! Hugs to you!
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