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writes:lately l have thought alot about wanting my wife and myself to watch another couple makie love. it turns me on when l think about it. just to watch them makeing love and to see the passion involved.has anyone else had these thoughts or have you actually done this?? Reply to this Question
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reader, cheated +, writes (13 January 2010):
cheated is verified as being by the original poster of the questionporn doesn't really do it for me. porn is all acting and to me it's not sexual. my wife isn't real interested in it but at times she has shown some interest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): Yes, and it's pretty hot, but you need to make sure that she's 100% into it... not 90%, not 99%... full tilt into to it. If she's doing it FOR you (and not for herself) you will have a mess on your hand afterward if she has any remorse.
Your best bet is to find an on premise swingers club (on premise means that sex is allowed). You can go and simply watch, but there are rules- normally if your going in the lay area you must be nude, and it would be better if you two are playing with each others as others play around you. If asked if you want to play (people should not be touching w/o asking) you can simply tell them you're her to watch. It's not an uncommon thing these days.
You may also be able to find a couple in your area who has the same fantasy and met them for MGS (Monogamous Group sex), which is group sex where partners are not swapped, and no touching, or other sex occures between non-partners.
Another option is an erotic holiday at a resort that allows public sexual displays- they do exist, but the closest to you is likely in Mexico (Desire resort). Again, she's going to need to be excited about going to a place like this- don't surprise her... it will be a disaster...
Many couples find this kind of play very exciting, hope you and your wife can agree on how to fulfill your fantasy.
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reader, Redd_Extacy  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 Wow! I hav never had any thought on this.have you ever thought about just watchin porn?or you actually want to see this in person??
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