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Want to try S&M but not end up in the hospital - any suggestions?

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Question - (6 July 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 July 2011)
A male Netherlands age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello people,

me and my girlfriend want to try bondage sex or sm..

(I don't know if sm is also the word in english so maybe it's not really clear to all...?)

She likes pain, well a bit not that she wants to get hurt badly, and I love it when she takes control...

does anybody have ideas for a us as a couple to start with...? because I don't think getting handcofs and a whip is a good idea for a start...

already thx for all the helpfull tips.

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A female reader, sammy1986 United Kingdom +, writes (7 July 2011):

handcuffs and a whip are actually the best way to start as long as your not to hard with the whip start off kissing cuddling etc when your both relaxed get the handcuffs out tie one of you up let the other do whatever you want to do do for each other half hour each then try gently whipping her and ask her to to do the same to you its what i do my ex loved it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2011):

Maybe a little choking and hair pulling , then resort to spanking ?

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