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writes:Hi. Have any of you ladies out there ever waited for a guy to break up with his current g/f to be with you? If so, I'm wondering how you handled the waiting; did you still date other guys or stay faithful to him? Did you put pressure on him or just let him handle things in his own way and time? Is it normal for a guy to be with one gal and in love with another? Please help me resolve these questions because I don't know what to do!! Thanks so much! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): stop right there and think.put yourself in that poor girls shoes right now and just put yourself in her situation. now, i don't really think you would like some girl coming and stealing away your boyfriend. i suggest you ditch this bloke and find someone who has the balls to be with you, and not actually be with another girl at the same time.
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (19 April 2009):
 NO way I would wait around for that to happen. DO you realize you are the OTHER GIRL in this situation? Why is he holding on to you and her as well? Sounds to me like a selfish man to me. If he was done with her, he would have ended it and stopped trying to keep you on the sidelines. Stand up for yourself in all of this, its not fair that he is making you wait around for him to do what he needs to or wants to do.I was stupid and waited around for the longest time for someone, and it only served to frustrate me even more, knowing I was being faithful and yet, he wasn't. I would tell him flat out, you have a choice to make and since you are stalling, I will make it easier on you...there is no choice now, I am out of the picture.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): i think dating someone is very different than be married to someone. there not married why are you waiting what is holding him there. i have waited actually i am waiting now faithfully but this is the hardest thing i have ever done in my life. it is very lonely at night and when its just me. i think it is possible but i think it is possible if they are married. i don't know all your details but waiting is very difficult. but if you love someone i guess waiting is worth it. good luck.
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