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writes: I was wondering , what is the general attitude about helping a grown child in post secondary education? I have 3 children ,and they all waiting for us to pay for their education. I see it in other families, that kids take student loan,and working. Is it better , when kids takes responsibility,and work hard for their future?But others are saying, parents should pay for them, as it is it very hard to work ,and study, and come out with a huge student loan at the end ?.I know, some kids are just lucky to get that help, but can those who can't will be ok too? Or it's very hard without help, or not even wort it to study? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): I made all arrangements, earned a small scholarship, obtained student loans, all in order to achieve my degree. I worked full time, went into debt, and graduated with a 3.85 GPA, near top of my class, phi beta cappa. My husband's parents arranged for and paid for his education and he spent the entire time partying, chasing women and skipping classes. Never made it through the second year and never returned to university. Why? He didn't have to and had no debt or accountability? He simply didn't care, didn't take it seriously. He still doesn't take responsibility well. This pattern is repeated again and again in our colleges througout the US, I cannot tell you how many times I've seen it in my community. It is your decision to make, only you know your children. I hope my observation and experience assists you.
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