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writes: My Husband and I have been together for 10yrs now with 3 kids. We have had a stuggling, abusive relationship. I should have left him a long time ago because of his actions. Now days it has been better, and it seems like he has matured and wants to love me, but now I have fallen for another guy that I have been seeing for a couple months now... I don't want to hurt my family, but I am not happy. I have ALWAYS stuck it out "because of the kids" I am so confused on where to go from here... does anyone have some good advice for a confused person? Reply to this Question |
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reader, pops +, writes (23 June 2005):
And where the kids go after you leave this abusive man? How about attending counseling classes with your husband that deal with the abusive behavior? Contact your local mental health organization, or start with your phsician, and get a referral from him/her. ABuse is rarely one sided. Police often describe these long term relationships as mutual combat. Do your children a favor. You have been training them how to be abusive to their mates when they grow up. Try helping them learn how to change all that.
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