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Understanding the ex's behavior

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Question - (28 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ex partner used to pretend to be jealouse over a long ago friend who I never fancied. Ex pushed to settle down saying I was the one etc.

We ended, she did not ask why and is now married.

How can you be so in love and jeolose one minute and then married to another the next. I feel as though she has deceived me!! She treats our time together like it was just a bit of fun !

Cant understand this behaviour and I cant understand how she has no feelings for me at all after so many years together and no mistreatment ?

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A female reader, Frenzotic United Kingdom +, writes (29 November 2009):

Frenzotic agony auntHow long have you guys been seperated for? Why did you guys end it?

I think she did have feelings for you but her desire to settle down wasn't what you wanted? She may of found that with someone else?

She didn't mistreat you, your perception is that it meant nothing, if it meant nothing she wouldn't have told you you were the one and wanted to settle with you.

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