A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I madly love my girlfriend. We had an amazing and vibrant story together... at least the first months. She is a super hot babe, 10++, A class, a great spirit and a stunning beauty. I got her because I was a wild stallion then, a H2G super male. At the top of my "social status", she couldn't resist me. We both fall in love with each other.Typical story, but after time with her, I turned into a total wussy. So she obviously became less attracted and started to give me less and less affection, smiles and consideration. So I started bitching and complaining, and frankly I've been totally ridiculous... Going deeper and deeper, till a point she lost at least half of her respect for me.When I realize my aura was totally gone and my mental health in deep trouble, I dumped her (this is the fourth time I do it! But this one, i remain firm and strong). I cannot accept to lose myself for a woman, no matter how great as she is.But of course, I dont want to lose her. Really. I love her, and it's love in its purest form.It's been 3 days now. I stick to the "total silence" strategy, but it's real hard. She didnt send a word neither send a message neither. My secret dream is that she realizes how much she misses me, and that she got the attraction back because she sees that, in the end, I'm a man, a real one.I know all of this sounds ridiculous. What should I do? I dont wanna move on. Any chance that she comes back? If you're a female reading me, you'll find me lame. But I really need some advice.Thanks so much.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 August 2010):
 Are you afraid your not going to get another girl like her? And you broke up with her 4 times? Sorry but if it didn't work the other 4 times what makes you think the fifth time is a charm? To be frank your still acting like a wussy and she obviously doesn't want that..Best bet is to buck up and move on. Don't be so sensitive the next relationship your in.
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