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writes:hey, i got a big dilemma, so here goes.well a couple of months ago i fell in love for the first time with a guy, lets call him john. ive been going out with john since then. it was good at first, but we have been arguing alot, about silly things, but since we have been arguing, ive seen a side to him that i dont really like to much. but im trying to make it work, because i was in love with once. about 3 years ago i had a boyfriend, it realy was love at first sight with him, but we broke up because he fanced someone else after a bit. lets call him mark. ive always been made at mark because of this, but i have still loved him. for three years i have loved him, but nothing ever happened so i tried to move and went out with john. (sorry if this is getting confusing) just lately i have been talking to mark, told me that he is in love with me, that he always has been but he never relised it, he said that he has never felt this way before about anyone.and now i dont know what to do. stay with john - i did love him once and he is really nice but have argued and im not in love with him anymore. but if i did break up with him i would just be doing what mark did to me in the first place.or go with mark - i cant stop thinking about him, but can i trust him? what should i do, and how should i do it? thankz
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (23 June 2006):
 I'm not understanding. You said you fell in love for the first time a couple of months ago with John and now you are saying that you loved mark for the past three years. Hell, who do you love? I know you have to be confused because I am. Anyway, follow your heart. It doesn't matter what Mark did to you. He did what he did because he thought that would make him happy. If you did the same thing to John you are trying to be happy. No one can blame you for going for your happiness. You said you didn't love John anymore so why live a lie and be miserable. If you move on with Mark you have to be able to put the past behind you and move forward. You can't live in the past. Be careful and protect yourself. Good Luck.
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