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writes:i feel like im too dependant on my boyfriend. we have been together on and off for a year now. i feel like hes the only one who really knows me because i tell him everything and i dont hide anything from him, like i do with my parents. my parents are so controlling that i feel forced to be a different girl when im with them than the girl i am with my friends. i can only be myself with my boyfriend and very few friends. sometimes i feel like i need him more than he needs me and this really worries me. Reply to this Question
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reader, idontknow416  +, writes (6 July 2009):
Well the fact that you say on and off makes me wonder. You might be acting a bit too clingy and that makes guys shy away. If you show him that your world doesn't evolve around him then he may think twice about you and decide whether or not he wants to be with you. I know exactly what you are going through I'm kinda going through the same thing but the one thing I know is you are probably are being too dependant on him and the more he draws away the more you cling and that's just not good. try staying away from him for a week and spend some good quality time with the friends you feel like you can be yourself around. Gather your feelings and try to ground yourself. It's really easy to get caught up in your feelings and lose sight of who you really are. I hope this helps a bit
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