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I'm just scared to death he's going to rip me apart again like he did just seven months ago!

Q.   Hi, my ex and I broke up seven months ago for the second and final time after a two-year relationship. We broke up because he was a douche who emotionally abused me and I just couldn't take it anymore. But at the same time, we had some really nice ...

A.   9 July 2009: It sounds to me like you guys are addicted eachother and have become codepedent on eachother. You don't know what to do without eachother but you can't be together at the same time. Honestly honey I say move on. I went through the same thing with a ... (read in full...)

I feel robbed of my first kiss!

Q.   i was robbed of my first kiss , this happened like 8 months ago ,at the time i never had a bf and never kissed a guy , i was with this guy i was -seeing- and we were a little drunk and in his car when he kissed me , not jsut on the lips a full ...

A.   9 July 2009: You are overreacting. Just because you didn't enjoy your first kiss doesn't mean you won't experience that "moment" where your breath is taken away. I think all of us are robbed of our first kiss because let's face it, none of us really WANT to ... (read in full...)

Is it okay for a 26 year old to fall for someone who is 16?

Q.   I'm a 26 year old female and I am falling for a 16 year old male. I don't know if this is ok or not. I feel so lost and torn. I want to tell him that I love him and I think about him all the time, but I'm afraid to. I don't want him to feel like I'm ...

A.   6 July 2009: I really appreciate all your feedback. Thank you... (read in full...)

Does she not take me seriously because of my age?

Q.   Ok everyone i need some advice.... I'm 22 and recently i've met a girl who is 29(the most beautiful girl i've ever met). I started talkin to her and we hit it off pretty good. A few weeks went by where we just talked and finally we got together ...

A.   6 July 2009: awww. I went through the same thing when I hooked up with someone younger than me for the first time. I'm 26 and he was 21 and I had always been with older guys before him, so I kind of freaked out because was so much younger but it's just something ... (read in full...)

Is it okay for a 26 year old to fall for someone who is 16?

Q.   I'm a 26 year old female and I am falling for a 16 year old male. I don't know if this is ok or not. I feel so lost and torn. I want to tell him that I love him and I think about him all the time, but I'm afraid to. I don't want him to feel like I'm ...

A.   6 July 2009: wow thank you soo much yodastud. You are right about all of it. His needs do come first in my book and that's why I can't tell him how I feel. I don't want to overwhelm him. I'm going let him be and not try to take it any further. I care about him ... (read in full...)

Is it okay for a 26 year old to fall for someone who is 16?

Q.   I'm a 26 year old female and I am falling for a 16 year old male. I don't know if this is ok or not. I feel so lost and torn. I want to tell him that I love him and I think about him all the time, but I'm afraid to. I don't want him to feel like I'm ...

A.   6 July 2009: thank you....but I'm not his teacher or guidance counsellor or drug dealer or anything like that. I appreciate what you said yodastud and you are right. I guess I never really asked myself those questions. Thank you for taking the time to help me... (read in full...)

Is it okay for a 26 year old to fall for someone who is 16?

Q.   I'm a 26 year old female and I am falling for a 16 year old male. I don't know if this is ok or not. I feel so lost and torn. I want to tell him that I love him and I think about him all the time, but I'm afraid to. I don't want him to feel like I'm ...

A.   6 July 2009: I don't fall into any of those categories. We met at a party. We actually live about 2 hours away from eachother. I don't believe it's stat rape at all and he is way more mature than any other 16 year old I have ever met. Sure he shows his age every ... (read in full...)

Is it okay for a 26 year old to fall for someone who is 16?

Q.   I'm a 26 year old female and I am falling for a 16 year old male. I don't know if this is ok or not. I feel so lost and torn. I want to tell him that I love him and I think about him all the time, but I'm afraid to. I don't want him to feel like I'm ...

A.   6 July 2009: The legal age in Canada is 16. I'm not worried about that. I'm mostly worried about him and his feelings. He's so innocent and sweet and I don't want to take that away from him. But I'm falling in love with him and I don't know how to tell him.... (read in full...)

Should I chase him, let him chase me, or just let him go?

Q.   this guy told me he liked me and i said i liked him too, he asked me out and i said yes.then after 2 weeks later i told him that it felt more like a friend zone then boyfriend and girlfriend thing.so he asumed i broke up wit him and he always said ...

A.   6 July 2009: I think he still likes you. he just doesn't know what you want and he's probably scared. It's your turn to ask him out if you are still interested. It sounds like you guys are just playing the push pull game and it's getting frustrating for the both ... (read in full...)

Too dependent on my boyfriend?

Q.   i feel like im too dependant on my boyfriend. we have been together on and off for a year now. i feel like hes the only one who really knows me because i tell him everything and i dont hide anything from him, like i do with my parents. my parents ...

A.   6 July 2009: Well the fact that you say on and off makes me wonder. You might be acting a bit too clingy and that makes guys shy away. If you show him that your world doesn't evolve around him then he may think twice about you and decide whether or not he wants ... (read in full...)

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