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writes: Hi I've met this girl. I've known her for 14 months, but only recently have I told her how I feel about her. For the first time in my life I have actually feel for someone, and when she told me that 'she is really sorry, but she doesn't feel the same way' I was gutted. What should I do? I really love her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2005): I'm in the same situation, I'm really in love with a guy but he just wants to be friends, I know its hard to move on and i haven't yet but spend some time with her, I spend alot of time with him and it seems to help me alot because your not sitting at home worrying about what there doing or who there with, your spending timer with them, finding out what they like/dislike and you never know she might think 'hey i click with this guy well' and she might give it a go, good luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2005): I met the man I am in love with eight years ago. I didn't like him then either even though I knew he was very interested in me. Circumstances led us to different states but then a few years ago we met again and it is the best thing that ever happened to me. He spent time getting to know the me that no one else knows and used that information to make me feel special. We became very good friends and I am actually the one that asked him out.So I would say be patient and don't pressure her. Learn to be her friend. Find out what she likes. Does she like to shop? Then ask her to give advice on an upcoming event and what you should wear. Maybe you can ask her to go shopping with you. Does she read? Then read a book or two that maybe she has read or would like to. Women are talkers so let her talk and actually listen. You don't have to solve any of her problems. Mostly women just want to be heard and respected and remembered. Also, I think it is a common fact that women are attracted to men that have some of the traits of their father. Find out what he is like. See if you have anything in common and let those traits be seen. It is worth the wait.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (18 February 2005):
 I think you don't have much choice but to move on. It does seem as if this girl may really like you but not in the way that you want so you need to accept this and start to think about finding someone else.It isn't rejection, it is just that she isn't the right one for you despite what you feel for her.You need to develop your confidence by going out with your friends, perhaps finding new interests and before you know it, the right girl will come along.Give yourself some time and then get out there and enjoy life!
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