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To the men: how do you feel when you are in love?

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Question - (26 March 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

To all the Men out here, how do you know when you are falling in love? What does it feel like?

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (26 March 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntWe aren't aliens... I'd like to believe that love feels the same for both men and women. Either way, its best feeling in the world for anybody anywhere :D

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A male reader, Brunel Wallis and Futuna +, writes (26 March 2010):

I can tell you how it feels when the woman you love leaves you after many years. The problem I have now is that I could fall in love every day there are so many beautiful women in th 40 year old bracket.

I am trying to get into a realtionship now and the lady is attractive and exciting, just need to get her on a date to much talk talk1

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

You feel you need the other person in order to survive and be happy.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

It depends. It can be painful, joyfull, and everything in between. Sometimes it feels like your heart is being ripped out. Sometimes you get the butterflies and are on cloud nine. I think it feels the same as it does to you. If I had to choose one word, it would be: Connection. A feeling of a deep connection to the other person.

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A male reader, Hansolo United States +, writes (26 March 2010):

I've exprienced always the one-sided ones.

When i see the person who i'm in love, my heart beats faster and harder. So hard, it makes me sometimes shake. I feel pressure and i hear thousands of voices, "C'mon go talk to her", "You loser, she will never love you", "No, she's going, you will never be able to talk to her", "But what if she's waiting for you?" and hundreds and thousands more like these sentences cruises in my brain.

It's pretty hard to think of something else when i'm in love, thats not cheap literature, seriously. Whatever i think, whenever i think, every single thought leads back to her. Which is not so bad at all, at least for me. As long as she is in my mind, i feel humiliated because i screwed something up or even couldn't do anything, so i'm not a good man, and just because i'm a bad guy, i always try to be a better man. But thats propably the pain-part of love, which only applies to the one-sided ones.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

Annoyed. The worst part is how your mood is entirely dependant on the mood of your other half. If she is unhappy, you are unhappy. You try to tell yourself that you could survive without her, but when an argument escalates you start choking at the though of losing her.

Being in love is like being a dog on a lead. You can run away and enjoy your freedom for a bit but you always go back to your owner

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