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anonymous
writes:my question might appear strange to some people but i would appreciate any advice. Years ago i was invited to go to a swingers party. I was sacred and a bit nervous so never went. Since then i have come out of a long relationship and am wondering wether to give it a try. If i try will i regret it? Anyone know what i should expect if i do go?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (30 December 2011):
 former swinger here... belonged to the BBW swing groups... i was married and for larger parties it was overly hot and crowded and I found it rude...
for smaller groups it was a nice social evening that ended up in an orgy....
I don't miss it.
if you can even find a swing group that allows single males you could try it... some do accept single males most do not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice :-)
i will think a little more. And talk to the friend that originally invited me. It would certainly be an experience though im guessing not the sort potential future girlfriends would like.
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reader, Tuesdayweldshikira +, writes (30 December 2011):
Hi, I've never been in this situation myself, but wanted to give you another perspective on it.Life is all about experiences, yet until you know if something is right for you or not, you have to make an informed decision and not a leap into the unknown head first.You could just go along as a bystander with a supportive and kind friend, but would not recommend that you do anything you are not ready to do or compromise your own personal safety or boundaries.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2011): It will be a room full of unattractive people, women with horrid bodies that are 40 plus, all having sex with each other. I doubt you would want to even touch any of them.
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