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female
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30-35,
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writes:Recently this guy at work has been giving me all the signals. I mean real signals and gone out his way for me. There are other new workers , he won't help no one. Just me.I just found out today by eaves dropping his conversation he is married. He quickly changed conversation. In the car i asked him how long he has been married. He went quiet like shocked then said too long. He was quiet majority journey then. I said what was wrong, he said got alot of things on his mind but wouldn't say what.Also i think i scared him? Today on a visit at work i strecthced to the back to get something and i said dont worry not trying to hug u, he got out the car, like ran away to the other side of the street as we had to go to a visit. he was across road just watching when i had said to him stay in the car as i need a few minutes. He is sooo different to me , he doesn't help NO ONE. just me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2012): Hello all, thank you for your replies. I don't want a affair with him at all yes i did fancy him and yeah that is slowly slowly going down.
He does my head in though to be honest, today we went to a meeting on way there and back all giggles. Then when we are there the head teacher was all over him and he didn't pay her any attention instead kept staring at me. But then made the next meeting with her, another worker and himself. Didn't even ask if i was free that day and we are suppose be working together.
I kept quiet, got outside in sarky way said ok just you two.He had such a grin!!! such a grin!!! he knows he makes me fiesty and he was like attend i said i can't as busy. etc
Then later on another joint working we had to make document. I followed his orders did it, he knew i was really really busy. Then he made me sit next to him for like a hour and just WATCH HIM makes changes to ALL the document.
I tried few times to say call me when need me e.g i'll carry on with rest my work. But no he said take a seat (next to him). We didn;t talk was just him being the boss! Annoyed the HELL OUTTA ME!!!!! Then another system i was like ok how you use that. He said you have to ask admin it really long. I said ok fine.
Then he felt bad showed me, i kept saying it's fine i will forget anyways. Then i walk to my desk . You can see on my face i am shattered been long day. Hes like are you ok? I ofcourse say yes. When really i want to go angry at him as i ended up going home one hour later and my boss thought i was trying to make toil.
So angry at him!!!!!!!! why is he even doing this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2012):
I may be wrong but your post reminds me of a similar theme where the guy was older and very much a gentlemen and helped no one buys the op.. I'm left wondering was /is that YOU??
But otherthan that, only thing I can add is stay away from married men..
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2012): Op from your post you sound like your interested in him! Do not go there. Even if he does like you he is off limits. He knows that and so should you! If you end up having an affair with him then you put your job and ur reputation on the line. If people in work found out then your life will be made a misery but probably not his, iv seen it happen. Women who sleep with other peoples husbands are called home wreckers and sorry to be harsh but i agree. Dont encourage this man by flirting back because its just not right. If he is married then he could very well have kids, think of all the people who could get hurt if you persue this?
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reader, person12345  +, writes (23 November 2012):
 What do you want us to tell you exactly?
He is married, that means off limits. If he cheats on his wife to be with you that won't make him boyfriend material to you, it will make him a scumbag who cheats. And if he doesn't cheat but flirts, it's means he's kind of a creepy guy who can't keep control of himself. You just need to back off. No good comes of situations like this. Just try to put some distance between the two of you before anything happens.
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