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writes:I slept with a guy I met on the third date. He dropped me home yesterday afternoon and i still have not heard from him. Feeling the typical feelings of anxiety, guilt etc Am i freaking out too soon, should I still give him some time to contact me, should I contact him etcI just expected to hear something from him. Any advice will help however, guys please add as much as you can.... Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 In my opinion, you should not make any effort to contact your new lover - that is entirely up to him if he truly IS more than just a fling. No reason to panic at this point. If nothing happens, then he is not your lover anymore - and you were just another conquest.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (4 July 2011):
 If this was only your third date, it really wasn't a good idea to hop in the sack so soon. Men like to chase women a while. Generally speaking, they tend not to respect someone who sleeps with them very early on.
How did he leave it when he took you home? Did he say he'd be in touch next day, or a day or two???
Since it only happened yesterday, why not wait a while and see if he calls? If you don't hear anything after a week then you might try picking up the phone yourself.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): I think you're freaking out too soon. It's only been a day and he probably was busy. But if he wanted to see you again, he probably would've let you know before you departed. Give him a few more days and then move on.
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