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Think I'm falling for her but don't want to hurt the friendship

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Question - (18 March 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2012)
A male United Arab Emirates age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I dont know whats happening to me, i have just got out of a relationship. I dont know how but i think i am now developing feelings for my childhood friend who is my best friends sister. I've known her since i was a child and she is one of my best friends, she is 15 and i am 17.

She is also good friends with the girl i broke up with. Apparently, i learnt that she used to be crazy about me and really like me, but i never realized that at the time. Since a few years we have been more of good friends. She actually was the one who wanted me to break up with this girl as she thinks that shez no good for me.

She has been in love with her cousin she met over the summer last year for quite some time, i think she still isnt over him. However, everytime i meet her, there is a quite alot of chemistry between us, with the eye staring and all, but when her brother asked us whether we liked each other, she said its not going to happen, and so did i, but not confidently.

I think im starting to like her, she will be shocked if i tell her this, and i dont want our friendship to be in jeopardy . I dont know what to do.....we are really good friends, we know each other ALOT and chat everyday....what do i do ? do i keep it with me ? or should i go for it ? plz help

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A male reader, Kyle007 United States +, writes (19 March 2012):

Once you have developed romantic feelings for a woman it is an inescapable choice you have with the situation:

1) You act on those feelings

2) You cut that person out of your life

3) Lose your mind from not being able to express yourself.

Do you see it any other way?

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