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writes: We all heard of that idiot how called his gf fat and got dump. But why do we keep doing it? It could be he isn't aren't aware of how disrespectful it can be? Or could it be he just like making her cry? It could be lot of reason. So think before you speak.Here are some tone down things you should never say to your girlfriend (or boyfriend). "Have you put on weight?.""You're just like your mother""I had a dream about you that's why I woke up screaming"Girls can very sensitive and/or insercure about themselves. When I mean insercure, hair, clothes, the perfect body and boys. Why are we like this? Because of the society we live in that tell how us should look in magazines, TV ads, even are friends and family pressure us to look the "normal" way. So be kind to your girlfriend. Shes really trying to keep.Maggi Reply to this Article
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reader, vamp-gal  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 Hey,
I completly agree with you. A lot of people are sensitive about themselves or insecure and it is because of the media. In the society we live in, there is a centain way we are SUPPOSED to be, I really don't like this, it makes me feel that someone else is trying to control me.
I hate the fact that a lot of models are size 0 or something like that, it's so unhealthy, but if you want to be someone like that, for a lot of agencies (I guess) it's a requerment, it shouldn't be.
Anyway, I thought this article was really good how you brought everyday things into something else.
Nope, you shouldn't say them things to your boyfriend or girlfriend, it's just wrong.
Great Article.
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reader, tux  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 Things you shouldn't say to your boyfriend:
1. Do these jeans look fat on me?
see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-these-boots-make-my-butt-look-big.html
2. Oh, He's just a friend.
You're not fooling us. A new guy just doesn't pop out of nowhere that you hang out with a lot.. He's not really "just a friend" See http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QMEPFZa4ZQo
3. You're just like my dad.
4. You remind me of an ex of mine. or anything about your ex for that matter.
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