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writes: Why do I not feel anything when I finger myself, it does not hurt either(which is good) I want it to feel good but there is no feeling for me. Reply to this Question |
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reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (3 November 2009):
 Most welcome. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all very helpful tips.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2009): It also helps to not think about it
watch some thing sexy, read something sexy, let your fingers wander idly. Your body should take over from there.
Once you are turned on, then start with a little penetration, you should not need to go too deep.
Also don't neglect the rest of your body, nipples etc.
Have fun with it and try not to stress about it
you should also do some google searches on female arousal and orgasm different parts of your body will respond more the more turned on you are.
Also you may want to try something that vibrates on Your clit.
You can get an electric tooth brush for like 20 bucks. Use the smoth side at first the bristles can be too intense at first.
Let us know if you achieve lift off :)
If you are still not getting there, talk to your mom, I know it's awkward but you may want to see a dr. Don't be too shy, getting off is worth it.
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (3 November 2009):
 Quiet echo is right. People mistake 'fingering' for inserting fingers into the vagina, and most women do not get a lot of sexual pleasure from vaginal stimulation.
Stimulate your clitoris instead.
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reader, quiet-echo + ♥, writes (3 November 2009):
Not as many ner ending inside the vagina as there are outside it. Clitoral stimulation is usually far more effective for women than is digital penetration.
You're quite normal.
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