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writes:im a bit confused, can anybody helpme? this guy i know just tole me that there might be a rumour about me and another guy lets call him kevin...we sit together a lot(in a place for hanging out) inmy society it is not very proper for a girl to have a best friend who is a guy...although i like him weknow that nothing will happen, but we still sit together and talk a lot...so yesturday this guy lets call him ben, tells me plz be careful, these has been some talking about u that u r sitting inappoperiately with a guy, and didnt tell me who he was or who told him...then i called him to reply on his text msg and long story short i got him to tell me me who it was although i had a feeling that he was kevin...oh ya and he said that he doesnt show up unless i was there, which i think is not true!...so ya anyways my question is do u think i should trust ben to a certain extent or i should ignore what he said...and also should i change my way with kevinor should i stay the same...i think what triggered ben to tell me to becareful around him is that i sat late at night with kevin alone in the kitchen, but the door wasopnned...so ya plz tell me what to do!! i need some help!! i dontknow what to do!!S:S:S
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Good god.
Say it with me now. GRAMMAR!
It really isn't that hard to write as if you have a school level above that of a six year old.
But to the point, why do you even care what people think? It is your life and not theirs. If you wanna hang out with a guy, who gives a toss about what the small minded idiots around you think.
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reader, Annalisa  +, writes (24 March 2008):
 If you feel you're doing nothing wrong, you can say so to anybody who asks, otherwise ignore any suggestions of rumours. This 'Ben' is either malicious or jelous!
Boys and girls can be friends. As love is fortified by friendship, you might want to be sure that your friend doesn't feel for you a little more than you expect!
If your friendship develops into a loving relationship, it will be a blessing. Just behave in a respectful way around people, so noone may criticise you!
God bless you and good luck!
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