A
male
age
41-50,
*cohen
writes:My ex girlfriend recently told me she regrets breaking up with me and that she misses me. She also says her boyfriend is being nasty to her and she feels lonely. Might it mean she wants to give the relationship another try? The truth of the matter is I really love her dearly, should I make a move?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): Remember to keep your feelings in tact and to be realistic. She is going to you because you are what feels safe to her...be it that I know nothing about your relationship with her, I would bet that you did not make her feel as low as the shmuck she is with now. It may mean that she still has feelings for you, but what she needs most is a safe haven to go to when she gets out of the relationship. Let her know that she deserves better, and help her to safely (physically and emotionally) get out of the relationship - but encourage her to stick to her girlfriends, too. I found myself doing exactly what she is doing...going to an ex when I was being psychologically abused by my boyfriend after him. I went to him because he already knew me on a level that others didn't - as a girlfriend. But I can honestly say that it was foolish of me to do that because his feelings came back for me and what I needed at the time was just someone to tell me that it would be okay...Good luck!
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