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writes: I met a guy 2 months ago and we get on brilliantly and very soon we shared the most amazing sex. I only see him once week as we live 50 miles apart and both have jobs, kids etc. We have recently had words as I felt that he was the kind of man I could really fall for. I told him this and asked where we were at etc as I didnt want to go rushing in. Basically he said that he cared for me and the sex was the best ever but he couldnt/wouldnt give any emotional ties for the forseeable future. This has confused me as he says he likes me, thinks I an an amzing woman and the sex we share cant happen without emotion. He has now backed off as he says its too soon to for my questions and he cant answer them. Im confused. Was I really so stupid to believe he cares. I dont know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, dobby666 +, writes (24 March 2006):
 you pressured the guy too soon. things were going fine as they were and if you want him to be the man you spend the rest of your life with then you have to re-establish the passion. talk to him and tell him you didn't mean to pressure him into rushing to any decisions. If he truly cares about you he will understand. 2 months is way too quick to be thinking about long term commitments regarding the circumstances. Hope all goes well for you, Everyone deserves Happiness with the one they love.
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reader, kizzy27 +, writes (24 March 2006):
It's obvious you two have something. Is it more than a physical thing, could he be the one you settle down with? There are all questions we want answered some times too quickly. Enjoy the time you spend with each other. If it natural progreses into something special then great but if it remains the same then you've got your answer!
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