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30-35,
*ules22
writes:The guys in my form are always picking me up or squeezing my sides and genraly pushing me around. it never really hurts and they are always doin it as a joke and i usually just lauph and slap there arm. i do fancy one of them and dont mind when he does it. but how do i stop them without making a fool of myself.??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): tell each of them to cut it out except your crush! then that way your hitting 2 birds with one stone
1) youll stop the others
2) youre hinting at your crush that you like him and hopefully you guys can then hook up
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female
reader, Lizz  +, writes (11 November 2007):
 Well, for starters you can stop acting like you like it. Tell him them to cut it out. Don't laugh or even crack a smile. Just look at them and say can you please cut it out with a serious look on your face. You don't necessarily have to be stern or angry unless they continue and your request goes ignored. Then be more stern until you get your point across. Make it an unpleasant experience for them and they will stop. Honey, if you don't like something then don't pretend like you do unless you want it to continue. Apply this to everything in your life and things will go a little smoother for you.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (11 November 2007):
 I think you have got to tell them in a stern way that you don't want to be picked up anymore. I think because you laugh and slap their arms they are thinking you are ok with it and seeing it as a green light to do it again. Once they see you are not happy with it they will soon stop.
Good luck x
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (11 November 2007):
 You simply say to them - don't touch what you can't afford.
They are probably doing it in a joking way, because they see you as a friend. That's a good thing. Maybe just say OUCH once, and see what happens. When we are little, guys and girls play rough sometimes, but guys have to learn sometimes that girls aren't rough players anymore, and that they have to be a little more gentle. Or just honestly speak to one of them, and tell him why you don't like it so much anymore. Word will soon get around.
Good luck...
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