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writes:Hi, I've been seeing this girl off and on for about 5 months. We were really intense when we first met - still are in a way. Recently we met up and she told me that she was in a open relationship with her ex last time we met she told me she didn't want a relationship with anyone and I thought things were finished when she said that to me so I didn't contact her again. Then a few weeks later out of the blue she asked if we could meet up again soon so I said yes, so we met a few days ago. She was different to before and seemed more closer and kept trying to hold on to me. After we had dinner at my place and she said give me a hug so I did. She said that I was lovely. She also mentioned that she was in an open relationship with the ex but said it's more friends. She's been living with him as she had no other place to go - she said she doesn't want to live there any longer because she wants her own space. The ex is a friend of mine. I walked her back home and she started to kiss me and it ended with tongue kissing just as we were saying good night. This has left me really confused, I'm not sure what to do or think. Please help me out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2012): Once she gets back with you then she'll be kissing the ex behind your back. She was throwing hints when she said she didn't want to live with the ex any longer, thought you was going to say come live with me. Find yourself a nice lady that you can be content with because that sounds like a messed up deal, the guy she's living with is your friend, leave them along, you'll always have trouble with that girl and plus there's more fish in the sea and you will find love again so please move on to bigger and better things.
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (12 April 2012):
 1. "....off and on for about 5 months. We were really intense when we first met "5 months and you're already on the on and off? It's a classic case of too much too soon. The chances of bouncing back from those type of situations are slim.2. She has told you TWO times that she is in an open relationship. Her feelings have not changed on this. You need to accept that her wanting to be in an open relationship translates to: I don't care about you enough to want to date you exclusively. You don't make her want to me with you and you alone. " She's been living with him as she had no other place to go"Translation: she is a user. How would you feel if she ended up living with you and told someone she is living with you simply because she has no place to go? To live with some man only because it's convenient and they're of good use to you? If she wants to live on her own, why doesn't she?
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reader, jewlstep4174 +, writes (12 April 2012):
 I wouldn't go near her. Will only effect you friendship with the guy and will be a complete waste of time spending any time with her. Have her have an open relationship with someone else and not you. Will only create drama. Good luck!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (12 April 2012):
 I would be very careful of this girl if I were you. She is treating your friend like dirt. Tell her you are not interested in a relationship unless she makes a clean break with your friend and moves out. She sounds like a user to me.
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