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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok, so I started dating this guy a few months ago, really attractive, hardworking, smart man. He owns his own business that runs out of 2 states so I see him only 2 weeks out of the month....I recently came across a Facebook page with a pic of him and a girl and she claims to be his girlfriend, he looks miserable in all their pics together a side I have never seen of him....I was devastated...I haven't confronted hi about it yet and its been a couple weeks since we spoke and now he's calling and txting telling me he misses me and wants to come see me and asking if I'm ok.....I have genuine feelings for him and don't know how to approach him or what to do....could there be a good explanation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): Yeah, I agree with anonymous female writer.... You need to confront him, and hima and his gf ant be that miserable or he wouldn't be with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): You have done well to distance yourself and take stock rather than just react. I find it slightly odd that he appears in this picture. It could be an old photo? But... you need to print off the page or get it up on the computer ready. Invite him over, stay calm and simply say "Please could you explain this to me" and look him straight in the eye. Also have a plan or decision ready so that you are in the position of power (for example asking him to leave etc) If you mention it on the phone he will have time to prepare himself and any excuse (if indeed he is not being honest with you). By 'stunning' him with it face to face you will be able to judge his reaction - and please do this very very carefully. I hope you gain clarity because it is very unfair on you to be made to feel this way.
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