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writes:Two questions about dreams that have been laying in the back of my mind for a long time.My first question is about a reacuring dream when I was younger.At the time these began I started to learn about what sexuality was and I realised I had an attraction to guys and that I was gay or bisexual, this was at a young age about 6/7/8 and I think it may all been linked togetherMy second question was about a one off dream I had that was disturbing but peaceful.This dream was me committing suicide by cutting up my arm beyond repair. In the dream my mum found me bleeding out and called the emergency ambulance while trying to hold me and I would just push her away and wouldn't let her near me. I was took to the hospital and all these people came up to my bed as I lay dying and I would just tell them all to go away, friends and relatives I just woulnt let near me. Then the guy I love came to my bed and woke me up with his slight sobbing and I told him it would be better like this, I won't be missed and he said that he would and then I died with a smile on my face in his arms and that's when i woke up.Wow I remembered that in detail...So what could this mean? I've read into the falling one and it said it was about making a jump or a unknown journey but I don't honk that completely explains it. With the second one it confuses me because suicide dreams are normally about giving up and depression but I didn't feel them emotions I felt more alive happy and at peace. :S xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Abella  +, writes (26 April 2011):
 Ask your doctor for a referral to a skilled psychologist, who also has qualifications in hypnosis, and who can help you delve a little deeper into what is behind the dream.
the dream may only be a metaphor for something from the past in your life or it may even be the result of something your heard discussed or saw in a film (maybe the film is not remembered) but where the concept or the subject deeply affected or worried you at the time.
Recurring dreams are not uncommon. Mine was me in a dark car driving up a hill towards a house (smoke coming from the chimney) on a hill (steep but very rounded) in France as a child. Even now i can recall the trees (poplars) and plantings (vines and lavender) from the scene and years later i purchased a Villoroy and B plate solely because it reminded me of the scene (sans the car and my uncle and i)
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