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41-50,
*eruzi Ngwamba Foze
writes:I've been trying to create serious relationship but it looks like I'm failing. I've broke-up with more than than four girls in the past two years. And all of them claimed that I was not giving them much time to be with me, others said I'm very serious in doing things, and I concentrate much more on my studies.please help me, do I suppose to forget about my studies? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): Studies should come first here, love. If they don't get that, it just means you haven't met the right girl yet. Do you really want to be with a girl who doesn't support your dreams and goals? Just stick tight, the right girl will come along. You can't rush it.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (6 October 2010):
 It sounds like you can't maintain the balance the girls you dated were looking for. Of course, you have to focus on your studies. But in order for a relationship to be successful, you have to concentrate on it as well. Thus, you need to strike the right balance. Enough time for your studies to be successful, but also enough time spent nurturing the relationship you want to flourish.
Maybe you could date a woman who also very busy with her studies and won't miss you when you are busy?
May I ask why you are dating women if you don't really have time for a relationship at this point in your life?
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