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writes:I am currently living with my boyfriend we bought a house last year, I am also seeing my daughters father on the side we have been doing this on and off, now here's the hard part my boyfriend is a great guy honest, trust worty , good provider and hasn't hurt me, instead has forgiven me and accepted me as I am. Now the baby daddy cheated and lied constantly when we were together, and also when we tried to get back together once, But I am still in love with him regardless and it looks like he really wants to try and work things out for our daughter and for us it seems like he has changed but am not sure since we have cheated on our boyfriend and girlfriend with each other.I have been in this mess for about a couple of weeks now and am going out of my mind I don't know who I should stay with I don't want to hurt either one but am worried more on my current boyfriend than the other because I know if I leave he would be heart broken and i know he is the best decision but am still torn between the 2. Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010): Your boyfriend sounds like a more decent and honest and reliable man than your ex. Your ex cheated on you and lied 'constantly' when you were together - these are your own words. Why do you want to go back to this?? the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Furthermore he's using your daughter as a pawn to try and get back with you. this is shameful. Your innocent kid shouldn't be a part of his games. just cos you two have a kid together does not make him the top candidate as your significant other. Why are you even worried about hurting your ex after all that he has done?? If you get back together with him he'll probably revert to his cheating and lying, and this will mess up your daughter. finally, right now you are cheating on your boyfriend by seeing your ex on the side. Your boyfriend sounds like an upstanding and honest guy, and yet you are cheating on him. You should come clean to him you're being very unfair to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010): Your baby daddy is a cheater, don't forget that! There's practically no chance this will change, so hoping he will make it work this time is only going to break YOUR heart. Your current bf certainly cares about you much more than the ex, so please don't play him too.
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