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writes:I have been in love with this girl for 8 years. I didnt do anything for the first 4 years becoz we are friends. I told her i like her 4 years ago. she wanted to 'give it a try'. Before we could go on a date she 'broke up' with me. She then had another boyfriend this year. Shes single now. sometimes she says if i like her so much why i dont call or see her more often, but she doesnt want to tell me where she lives. sometimes she says we are friends. i feel i can wait for her forever. i dont want to find someone else. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): I'm guessing you're kind of young? Teenager maybe? Anyway from my experience some girls just like to know that they're wanted, and aren't actually interested. Is this girl a bit more socially successful than yourself or a lot better looking? When she was in a relationship with someone else, did she complain about him a lot and and discuss her relationship problems with you? Obviously don't know much about the situation, but I'd say that after 8 years it's gone too long and you're doomed to friendship. It sucks, but you'll get over her.
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