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writes:I am the youngest of all in my home. since my chilhood everyone they shout at me. i am now an adult and still they do the same in tiny little things like, i don't keep my clothes in right place, my book, i don't clean my room. They think i am a mess but i don't think i am. I do the things that i see and I have been doing my work. i am often allergic to my sister nowdays. she complains to me every time that too in rude voice. There are neither any person to control so that they wud know what it means. I am so fed up because all this i have become so aggresive. when they complain to me I don't find any big reason. they too sometimes makes the same mistakes. help me please. Reply to this Question
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reader, suitcase  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 ooops,,,,hay family is like that,,,same here,,they are your family,,,so tolerate it a bit,,normaly everbody is trying to rule someone,,that's the nature of life,,,as TENNISSTAR said:) going out is a another option,,talk with your family members,,and tell them taht you are an adult now,and you don't like being treated like this,,,that'll work
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 Haha you're allergic to your sister? And I thought I was the only one allergic to my sibling.
Well ANON, I'm assuming you still live at home since everyone is still ragging on you. I don't know what it is about family but sometimes whatever you do just isn't good enough for them. I stopped trying to please people a long time ago. You're an adult, make you happy. However, you still are under your parent's roof so you do have to abide by their rules. If they tell you to clean up your room, then I suggest you do it. Although it may not be up to their standards of cleanliness, at least you still followed orders.
Now, if you're sick and tired of their nagging and bitching then I suggest you start saving money to move out on your own, or find a friend who wants to share an apartment. That way it's your place, your rules. No one around to nag at you to clean up your room.
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