A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay, I'm a teenage girl who has a very strong outlook on people and analyzing them before deeply engaging in a relationship with them, whether it be a friendship or a relationship. I'm straight and I've always liked guys. The problem is I recently met a girl, who is a lesbian, that I quickly connected too. I formed a friendship with her and learned a little about her and found out we are really similar. She's had a really tough life and I greatly admire her strength and constant struggles she pushes through. She's ridiculously interesting and funny and just so nice. She's just an incredible person overall who has flaws just like anyone else, but the best thing is that she's completely aware of her flaws and is working to fix them. It was odd for me to immediately trust someone so quickly, but I just felt... comfortable talking to her. I had never thought about myself liking a girl, but lately she's all I can think about (not in a sexual way, just thinking in general). She is involved with someone, but recently we were talking and she said that she wished I were gay because we are a perfect match. I was flattered, but I assured her I was not. I wasn't offended in any way, and I'm one of the most open-minded people I know. I just want to know if I'm starting to like her or if it's just a little connection that was developed due to our similarities, or maybe I'm making up this chemistry to mask my natural yearn to nurture struggling souls. I"m so confused!! Any advice or thoughts would be greatly appreciated!-me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): She doesnt attract you sexually.I think you just like her as a good friend.
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