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*teelhawk65
writes:I'm tired of being gay, and I just can't take it anymore. It's going to kill me. I'd do absolutly anything to be straight. (or atleast like girls more than guys) Well, I just don't find gay men very attractive, in fact, if they seem too fruity, it almost annoys me.. not trying to be mean, but guys that call you 'hun' or 'sweetie' just really piss me off. But please, please, tell me that there is a way that I can achieve this! Reply to this Question
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reader, Lifeless13 +, writes (19 January 2011):
Ok, calm down bro. I think I know what you mean, in that the stereotypical gay is kind of fruity, but you just haven't met the right guy yet. I know it's not the answer that you want to hear, but I don't think you can convert yourself, and I think you'll just have to wait this out a bit. You're only 13-15, you still have a long life ahead of you. I'm looking at the same situation, I've never been in a relationship, but I don't want to have pet names like that either... they do sound kind of annoying, don't they? Anyways, I'm sure you'll find a less fruity kind of guy. Just keep looking!
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reader, xxjameswxx  +, writes (18 January 2011):
 If you're gay, you're gay, there's nothing you can do that will change that.
I didn't like it at first but I soon learnt to appreciate the fact that I am.
As previously stated, not all gay men are camp and feminine, i'm not. Not in the slightest. In fact people at work didn't know I was until I told them and they were surprised.
You've probably met more gay men than you realise, because there not camp or feminine.
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (18 January 2011):
 Pls don't waist your time feeling this way, hating urself. Be happy, proud... By the way most gay guys are very handsome & sucessful. Also u might not like drama queen gay guys but its just preference & some like conservative, others loud. Some are very masculine, quiet but are still gay.. Anyways.. You are very young, still have a full life time ahead.. Don't think too much, fight w/ur emotions..
Be proud, happy & enjoy life..
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reader, natmarie +, writes (18 January 2011):
 Not all gay men are cam and ' fruity'. Just take your time.Your very young to be active? There are amny gay men outthere who are startight acting. You will meet one . There is nothng to hate about being gay. x
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