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Shy to make contact--what does that mean?

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Question - (8 June 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2013)
A male India age 30-35, *owerstar writes:

If a girl behaves like uncomfortable, shy to make eye contact with u what does that mean?

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A female reader, Dorothy Dix Australia +, writes (12 June 2013):

Hi. I am guessing that you are likely to see this young lady on many occasions, whenever you are out with your friends socializing?

And that perhaps, it is NOT the very first time you ever saw her?

And that also, you have so far, seen her on at least a few occasions up until now?

Is it in a social environment where you see her?

Or are you both studying at university or college or something like this?

Well in any case, the same applies no matter what the situation is.

I really believe that if you follow what I said in my first message to you, that I think it will be a great way of breaking the ice and moving towards getting some kind of basic conversation going between you, in the very near future.

Let me know how you go.

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A male reader, Powerstar India +, writes (9 June 2013):

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Hello Dorthy, i really wonder how u know so well, yes we never talked with each other only we have seen each other thats it..thanks for your suggetions:)

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A female reader, Dorothy Dix Australia +, writes (9 June 2013):

Hi there. I am guessing that you haven't actually spoken to each other yet?

You have only seen each other in a social environment, while out with your own friends, and you see this girl you would like to get to know.

I would say that she likes you also, and is just a little shy, NOT disinterested.

And if that is the case, well then if you see her again in the same environment, why not look her way and smile.

And see if she smiles back.

During a night out, you might have to do this a few times before she finally smiles back at you.

She might look when you are not looking, and vice versa.

So it just takes a little perseverence, but worth it just the same.

And eventually, you might feel confident enough to walk over to her and actually say "Hi".

The main thing is that you are both on the same page.

Meaning, that you both like each other enough to go to the next level of speaking to each other.

And so you need the eye contact with her, on a regular basis, to give you the encouragement you need to do that.

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