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writes: Okay...well i'm a freshman and i just met this really great guy through my friend. The thing is he's in 12th grade and i'm in 9th. Is that wrong or should we just be friends and wait til i turn 18? PLEASE HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, startingover28 +, writes (22 April 2006):
My mom used to say to me "why can't he find someone his own age?" I didn't understand back then but in retrospect, I understand completely. So you are like 14 or 15 with your whole life ahead of you, focus on what you want, date a lot of people and have fun. At this point in your life until you are in your 20s should be your time to figure out what you want. What will happen when you turn 18 and you have waited for this person? You can meet many other boys in a three year span closer to your own age. The feelings you have for him are probably pretty powerful and they are good, but find yourself first. If you are questioning a physical relationship with this person, if that is all he is interested in, then move on. The physical part will come when you are ready with the right person. Good luck
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reader, bonym1983 +, writes (21 April 2006):
 Dear Anon. As I am from the UK when you say 12th and 9th grade I am unsure of exactly how old you are, but my dear you sound very young. Please don’t rush into anything just yet, it is good to build up a relationship and often the best relationships (love relationships) are from those who started out as great friends first. Sweetheart, you must only do what you feel is right. When you say you should wait until you are 18, am I right in assuming that you prefer to wait until you are older before you engage in any physical relationship? Everything happens for a reason, if the two of you are meant to be, trust me darling, you will be together, but in the mean time, keep hold of this great person friend you have. You never know, in time, he may become more than your friend. God bless you. xXx
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