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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about two years now. We are both seniors in high school. I already know where I am going to college, but she doesn't know where she's going. The problem is just a week ago she got rejected from the last school that was close to me. Now that this has happened, it's hit her very hard. She says she can't do long distance becasue she'd be too miserable in college from missing me too much. So she actually wants to break up now rather than during the summer. She says if we break up now it'll save herself from a lot of unhappiness, because if we wait it'll only be harder. She thinks it'll be easier to be miserable the last couple months of high school and be ready for college, rather than making this last as long as possible. So my question is do I let her do this and go, or should we keep the relationship and happiness as long as we can?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): you answered your own question when you said "she wants to break up now" Two people have to agree to be in a relationship. yet it only takes one to decide to break up. My advise is to let her do what she wants , you can't stop her. If she loves you she will stick around whenever possible. Don't get mad at her don't stop calling unless she specifically says to stop. going out or not going out are just words her actions will say what her heart feels. don't force things you could push her away .
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