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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I got talking to this guy online, and we quickly started getting on really well. He got attached to me and wanted me to visit - we'd already planned a joint birthday party - so I did. The first few days were great. He said he was the happiest he'd been in over a year (he's currently 22. I'm 23 btw)Then his ex started to act up. She ran off with someone else. Then fell pregnant - convieniently, around the same time he last slept with her. (But he knows she slept with others.)He then realised that maybe he couldn't cope with the emotional input of a relationship, having someone around again was strange for him and he needed to sort himself out. He said "We're not splitting up, we're not giving up, it's just not viable right now." He feels bad for puting us into this situation because he thought he was ready. She's just had the baby. For months, she's been wanting to sort things out. He hates her. She thinks he'll go back because of the baby - it might not even be his.We're meant to be waiting and seeing what happens, because we both think things could be really good once he can get his head back in order. I don't have a problem with the child. I do with the mother. She's obsessed and deluded - she looks me up on the internet on a daily basis.So..do I wait for him? My original intention was to wait, but his ex seems to be trying to drive me away as much as she can and I can't deal with her as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe has this idea he wants to fix things and claims he told her so. I don't know what to believe, or where I stand. I have, for all intensive purposes just dumped him. If he wants me he has to show me.
He was going to have a DNA test done. In some strange way, maybe me saying no more will make him realise he has to do something about her.
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reader, SJ_ninety  +, writes (19 June 2008):
 Wow, it's just like on TV, lol. Anyway, this woman seems like the kind that would screw anyone over who becomes even the slightest bit close to her ex. I highly suggest/recommend one of those blood tests to see if the kid is even his. If not, you've really got nothing to worry about.
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