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*ichael O'Brien
writes: Dear cupid. I cant stop thinking about receiving anal sex do you think i should go ahead and have it Does it hurt very much the first time as I never went all the way before with a man Fustrated
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reader, michael O'Brien +, writes (3 September 2010):
michael O'Brien is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi everyone
I would like to thank everyone who answered my question on anal
sex I found it a great help.
Many Thanks
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 If a guy is pressuring you into having anal sex then no..Or if you are just really curious and you happen to be with a man you really like who requests then give it a whirl. Everyone is different, my first time was horrible this guy wanted to go fast and that was that last time for me. People say a lot of lube, I tried that and it didn't help..Don't waste your $ on that Anal-eeze doesn't work. Regardless, it's going to hurt like hell and I noticed I was bleeding a bit afterwards. Try your guy sticking a finger or two in there when you guys are having regular sex and see how you like it. Then go for the plunge for anal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): It doesnt really hurt from personal experience. It feels quite good actually, after you get over the beginning feelings. Id kind of makes you feel gassy but full at the same time, in a great way, haha as strange as it sounds. It kind of takes your breath away in a literal sense. I suggest go for it if youre really considering it. Just make sure you use something so its not so dry & uncomfortable. Also tell him to be easy & that its not a race. Ill warn you that things could get messy but its completely normal so dont flip out if it happens. But if youre worried about that then just go poo before haha. You might like it, never know. :) good luck & be careful.
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reader, romany  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 Personally for me, I hate it, yes i done it and yes it hurt, and I would never do it again, it wasn't even over when it was over, as the pain stayed for days, However i've known some girls that do it regularly, they like the pain, and the fact they are feeling dirty and naughty.
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reader, MansonGroupie +, writes (2 September 2010):
 I think you should definitely try all (well, most) things at least once!Anal can be amazing, so long as you're relaxed and well lubricated.Yes, it can be painful, especially if you tense up, however your partner should stop if it becomes sore.Perhaps have a glass of wine beforehand, relax, enjoy plenty of foreplay, and enjoy :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): Anal sex is different for each person. Some people love recievinv it, others really do hate it. It all depends on the amount of lube you use and how fast your partner is going. But generally, the first time will hurt, it wasn't designed for this in mind. Good luck.
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