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writes:My brother-in-law was driving my sister and I home (we all had been drinking) my sister fell asleep in the back of the car and them my brother-in-law started massaging my neck in a kind of erotic way - I pretended to be asleep as I was kind of scared - my question is should I tell my sister about her husband or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): well... I guess if you were that anooyed you could have offered him a stoney stare there and then. You didnt so in some ways he may think you were okay with it all.
I would just avoid him for now and NO...don't tell your sister!!!
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reader, pashanoodle  +, writes (18 September 2008):
 Hmmm, this is a difficult question. My thoughts are that I'm not sure telling your sister would be constructive - she may be annoyed at you rather than him and he is going to either deny it or blame you.....and what is telling her going to do?
You could pretend it didn;t happen at all - like you were asleep and don;t know he did it - and see how he is around you from now on.
Or - you could calmly but assertively say something to your brother in law - so he knows you know, and knows you will not out up with it. Maybe even throw in a threat that if you see any other 'fishy' behaviour from him you'll tell your sister.
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