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Should I tell him if that I'm falling for him or should I wait until I'm actually in love with him or until he says something first?

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Question - (3 November 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've been seeing someone for a couple of months now and its been quite an intense connection and relationship. Im starting to fall in love with him but im scared of telling him in case its too soon or I case he doesn't feel the same way.

We have moments where we are led together just looking at each other with him stroking my hair and face and I can feel myself wanting to tell him but I dont know how or if I should.

Should I tell him if that im falling for him or should I wait until im actually in love with him or until he says something first? I want to let him know how I feel but I struggle to express my feelings face to face with people and im scared in case he doesnt feel the same and I ruin everything. What should I do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2012):

I think you are already in love with him if you like it or not!

Don't say anything for a while just to protect yourself a little. Enjoy him and enjoy being in love and just see what happens

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2012):

Are the two of you exclusive? That's usually the first indication a guy sees you as someone he COULD fall in love with. You may just be a friend with benefits, meaning he most likely won't develop those feelings. If you are sleeping with him, I'd clarify before you go way out on a limb.

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