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Should I tell her now or wait until they break up?

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Question - (22 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *creamingsam writes:

I have loved my good friend since 3rd grade. She has an idea I like her from rumours and such be she has never heard it from me. She has a boyfriend. Should I tell her now or wait until they break up.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (22 March 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntDoes it matter a lot to you if you tell her now or after her breakup?

If you tell her now, at least she knows you love her .

If you do not tell her now , you may not have the chance

because anything could happen from now till eternity.

There are so many unknowns in the future.

She could go to Heaven or she could go far far away from you

or disappear from your radar.

And what about you?

Can you guarantee you will be here for 100years!!!!!!

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (22 March 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntDont do it for now

Wait until she is single

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (22 March 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou should tell her now because nobody knows what will happen tomorrow.

Tomorrow, you may not be there or she would not be there to hear from you.

Telling your love is one thing but whether she will respond in kind is another issue.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008):

I'd wait it out until they break up.

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