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writes:i am 20 year old college student.i am not in a relationship. when i joined my college 2 year ago i met with a girl. we became very good friends .for 1 year we were good friends but the class mates used to tease us that we are bf n gf and not friends.i avoided them and just ignore them. but her friends tease her by my name that i am his bf.because of this she stopped talking with me and started ignoring me.i tried my best to explain her . but she was same. so i also get angry and stopped talking with her and i broke my friendship with her. after two days she call me but i didn't talk with her on cellphone. and now we are not talking to each other from last 2 months.should i talk with her again or move on in my life.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (10 August 2012):
Call her and explain to her that you had a great friendship, and that other people’s nastiness got in the way of that. Tell her how important her friendship is to you, apologise for whatever mistakes you made, and ask her if you can patch things up. If she doesn’t respond to that, there’s nothing more you can do and so yes, you need to move on, but at least you’ll know that you did the decent thing. So make that call, do your bit and then it’s up to her. But don’t keep chasing after the friendship if she’s not interested.
I wish you all the very best.
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