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writes:my boyfriend has been seeing someone else. i found out yesterday. i'm really sad, but glad that i know the truth. i told him its over, obviously. I think he likes the other girl a lot.But my question is: should i tell the her?It's not to get back at him. Its just because i'm so glad i know, and i'm sure she would want to aswell.So what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): I would talk to her. I was the other woman once without knowing it and his girlfriend called me. We talked for hours and I actually thought she was pretty cool and we both ended up dumping him. It also gave me some closure on the relationship and the truth about what lies he was telling each of us. When she first called me one of the first things she made sure to say was that she in know way blamed me at all and she'd been with him for years and just wanted answers and what happened. You should have seen the look on his face when he realized I was talking to her. He couldn't make excuses to either of us anymore.
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reader, minnie_me  +, writes (21 March 2009):
now if i was u i wouldnt get involved. if he cheated on u he obviously isnt worth the pain dont let him see that its hurtin u. if i was u i would move on and find some1 betta than him which u wil find in time im sure!
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reader, satchi  +, writes (21 March 2009):
Its not necessary to talk to her. Don't worry about this. She can take care of herself. Its better to walk away now, just move on. Don't speak to your ex, don't speak to her, do all the things people do when they are on break-up mode. Take care.
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reader, cls1990  +, writes (21 March 2009):
 if i were you i would concentrate on myself right now, pamper yourself, go out with friends, take a break - anything thats gonna help you get over this guy!
even if your intentions are good, your ex isnt going to make them out to be & most probably it will be you looking like the one trying to split them up.
Leave him to get on with his life & you get on with yours.
Im sure you will be much better off without him
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): If it were me, I would stay out of it! What good will it do anyone for you to approach the other woman? She will probably be put in your position eventually but maybe not. Just move on...you will be involving yourself in their lives if you do otherwise.
You will heal in time, You will live to love another!!!!
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