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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I just got back with my husband after he told me he made me and the kids unhappy.4 days ago he was talking about get separated because he felt I wanted him to change and he said he couldn't.We have to kids young children. A very close friend spoke to him last night and he wants to get back, and regrets. I feel it is my fault because a month ago I said he had to spend more time with me and the kids and if he did not change then I would leave him. So never tell this to man because it give him bright ideas and they will leave you, never again i will say this, I really thought I had lost him for good.He never left our home or stopped sleeping next to me.My question is how shall I behave? I still feel he is miles away from me, I know it is raw still. I did give him a kiss this morning on the lips, but I felt he is distance. I just want to cuddle him and make love to him, how long do I have to wait to get closer?Should I try to talk to him about what happened or shall I just let it go? Reply to this Question
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reader, CNKlives  +, writes (17 September 2008):
I would talk about it. I would put EVERYTHING on the table and just have it all out then let it go....
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