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Should I take the lack of response as a lack of interest?

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Question - (5 December 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 December 2006)
A female , *ard0106 writes:

I worked with the man and there was a real connection between the two of us. I have since left and was very upset leaving. Apparently, he hasn't been the same since i left (my friend has told me - he really misses me) I know he did fancy me, i think he may feel he is to old for me, as he mentioned this when i left (he 29 years older). Now i have emailed him a few times and he has not replied, so should i take it that it was just a passing thing a and try to forget about him.

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A female reader, kellyO United Kingdom +, writes (5 December 2006):

kellyO agony auntHi Sard0106,

since u are sure he has read them then it will be best to wait for his response. Try not to send him any more emails or call him.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006):

There is some possibility that you are hitting a work spam filter.

But 29 year age difference is too much. Maybe he acknoldges this and is doing the right thing.

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A female reader, sard0106 +, writes (5 December 2006):

sard0106 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Yes Kelly0 it is his current email address, I know for a fact he has read it..as my ex colleague has told me. I am feeling a bit silly for emailing him, as now i am not sure, maybe i was imaging things. I really though he cared for me, we had a night out last week and he never showed either,*told my friend he met a guy he hadnt see in along time.. so i am really beginning to think that he is avoiding me!

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A female reader, kellyO United Kingdom +, writes (5 December 2006):

kellyO agony auntHi Sard0106,

Is it his regular email? Are u sure he got them?Well what i would do is wait for him to respond. Still give him some time to do that.Dont email him again. If u dont hear from him for sometime then of course u can call but i would advise on a casual level and try to make it short, just to find out how he is doing. It will be best after that to allow him make the next move.

Take care dear.

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