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writes:Six months ago, I found an ex from 20 years ago on Faceb**k. She and I have talked on the phone for hours since then. We live in different states. She claims that she had aborted three of my children with her. At the time she was living with another man and their young son. I only remember one abortion. She won't talk about it, and won't answer any questions about the other two abortions. There was another guy involved with her too, besides her common law husband at the time. Do you think it's been a long time so don't worry? Or do you think that she should be up front about what really happened because she didn't want me to come with her when these supposed abortions happened. I don't know for sure if she is telling the truth. Alcohol and drugs are a problem with her after all of these years (Xanax and booze). She says that she does not love the man she's currently with and only is using him for the mortgage on their house (which he pays). She also wishes to have sex with somebody since her current common law husband can't perform. I can see now that she can't be trusted.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (17 July 2011):
 You have answered your question in your last sentence. She cant be trusted, she never could if she was having an affair with you while in a relationship with somebody else.
Three abortions? Did neither of you consider contraception after the first one?
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